"You know, it just doesn't matter." This thought bounced into my head during one of my endless internet research expeditions, trying to find the "right" curriculum. After home schooling since 1996, I now realize what others have been saying all along: it just doesn't matter. Please don't misunderstand me. Education matters a great deal, but all the fuss about this or that program, this or that method, this or that curriculum package, is just that: fuss, and not substance. My kids never once finished a spelling book, and guess what? They spell just fine. They probably won't win a national spelling bee, but they do all right. How did that happen? I don't know. I do know that it wasn't due to my expert teaching skills. I'm not even sure how my son learned to read, but as he sat next to me this morning reading to me I thought, "How did this happen?" Because I honestly don't remember teaching him to read as well as he does. I guess it's just a matter of providing the environment and a little motivation. Kids learn what they need to learn, when they need to learn it. It's rather miraculous, when I think about it, when I look back and see that it just seemed to happen. Oh, yea, I put in my share of sweat about the whole thing, but now I see what author Marva Collins means: "Anything works if the teacher works." I always thought she was right, and now I know it. So am I excited about homeschooling? Yes and no. Like the rest of life, it will be whatever it is: wonderful, boring, bla bla bla. But somehow my kids will get what they need, and that's very satisfying to know. |
